Intentional Time
Time.
A couple years ago, my husband and I spent a few weeks in Africa, visiting and encouraging our friends in the mission field there. There were many things that were strikingly different in Kitwe, Zambia compared to my small Midwest town, as I'm sure anyone could guess. Among many things, one thing that stood out to me was the use and concept of time.
One day there was need for a part for a machine that had broken down. Here in America, we could drive to a store, find the part, check out, and head home. With the presence of self-checkout, we could even get that all done with zero human interaction. The amount of time spent on the whole thing could be minimal. In contrast, in Zambia we drove to 3 different parts stores, each time first asking the owner how he was, how his family was, etc, and then discussing where the part could be found (spoiler alert, NOT in their store). We spent an entire afternoon trying to find the part and in the end came home empty handed.
We did not get things done very quickly that afternoon, but we were quite intentional with our time. Relationships were built and information was gathered. I remember our friend saying it wasn't a wasted trip, that things were accomplished despite the part never being acquired. And in the end, we did have to special order the part online.
I certainly had to shift my focus after that experience. In what I first had thought was a complete waste of an afternoon was in fact not that at all. I often get hung up on the to-do's and getting things done when in fact it may be more about what our time is filled with instead.
A couple years ago, my husband and I spent a few weeks in Africa, visiting and encouraging our friends in the mission field there. There were many things that were strikingly different in Kitwe, Zambia compared to my small Midwest town, as I'm sure anyone could guess. Among many things, one thing that stood out to me was the use and concept of time.
One day there was need for a part for a machine that had broken down. Here in America, we could drive to a store, find the part, check out, and head home. With the presence of self-checkout, we could even get that all done with zero human interaction. The amount of time spent on the whole thing could be minimal. In contrast, in Zambia we drove to 3 different parts stores, each time first asking the owner how he was, how his family was, etc, and then discussing where the part could be found (spoiler alert, NOT in their store). We spent an entire afternoon trying to find the part and in the end came home empty handed.
We did not get things done very quickly that afternoon, but we were quite intentional with our time. Relationships were built and information was gathered. I remember our friend saying it wasn't a wasted trip, that things were accomplished despite the part never being acquired. And in the end, we did have to special order the part online.
I certainly had to shift my focus after that experience. In what I first had thought was a complete waste of an afternoon was in fact not that at all. I often get hung up on the to-do's and getting things done when in fact it may be more about what our time is filled with instead.
Despite the obvious benefits of punctuality and expediency, I am convinced that speed isn’t exactly what we’re after here in the America. What we want is meaning. Time well spent. Some of us might enjoy the thought of completing a hundred useless tasks in an hour, but I imagine most of us would prefer completing one single important task instead. At the end of the day, I want to know that I did at least one thing that mattered.
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